"He who lives in harmony with himself lives in harmony with the universe."
Marcus Aurelius
This is a powerful statement about the connection between inner peace and our place in the world.
As you reflect upon this quote, and in our journey together, you will soon discover the importance this quote has on your sales success.
Let's start off our time by breaking down this quote...
Harmony with oneself - This is all about a state of inner peace, balance, and self-acceptance. This means understanding your values, accepting your strengths and weaknesses, and living in accordance with your own principles, not others. It's about creating alignment with your thoughts, feelings, and actions.
Harmony with the universe - Recognize that your connection is to something larger than yourself and live in a way that respects that connection. In other words, create that sense of belonging and purpose with the man upstairs.
Please give thought to your inner peace and the alignment with your true self, as this becomes essential for finding your place and purpose in this world.
Often life and your sales career can feel chaotic and overwhelming, finding your inner peace is essential for navigating all these challenges.
When you're in conflict with yourself, it's difficult to find true harmony with the world around you.
In this post-trust business environment, sales growth isn’t just about strategy. It’s about authenticity, trust, and relationship-building.
While many salespeople focus on techniques, scripts, and closing tactics, the real differentiator lies in building harmonious relationships with clients. Harmony fosters trust, enhances loyalty, and ultimately drives revenue growth.
When you create an environment where clients feel valued, heard, and understood, sales become a natural outcome of the relationship rather than a forced transaction.
Romans 12:16 ESV states,
"Live in harmony with one another. Do not be haughty, but associate with the lowly."
Building harmony with your clients isn’t just a nice-to-have, it’s a necessity for long-term growth. Creating harmony with your clients leads directly to increased sales.
When you create an environment where clients feel valued, heard, and understood, sales become a natural outcome of the relationship rather than a forced transaction.
In our time together, we’ll explore three powerful ways creating harmony with your clients leads to sustainable sales growth:
- Deepening trust through authentic relationships
- Creating meaningful value that solves real problems
- Delivering an inspirational experience that encourages loyalty
Are you ready to dive in? Let's begin.
1. Deepening Trust through Authentic Relationships
“In a high-trust relationship, you can say the wrong thing, and people will still get your meaning. In a low-trust relationship, you can be very measured, even precise, and they’ll still misinterpret you.”
Stephen M.R. Covey, The SPEED of Trust: The One Thing that Changes Everything
Trust is the currency of modern sales. In this post-trust world, clients are bombarded with sales pitches and empty promises. They can sense when a salesperson is insincere.
Authenticity is what sets high-performing sales professionals apart. Harmonious and authentic relationships foster long-term loyalty.
The days of transactional selling are gone. Executives, key decision makers, influencers and buyers are seeking sales professionals who care, listen, and add value beyond the sale.
Building authentic relationships means:
- Showing up as your genuine self without a hidden agenda.
- Being consistent and reliable in your interactions.
- Taking a vested interest in your clients' business and personal success.
You might be asking... Why does this drive sales growth?
When clients trust you, they're more likely to open up about their real challenges, allowing you to tailor solutions that truly address their needs. Trust fosters long-term partnerships, leading to repeat business, referrals, and stronger client retention.
Practical steps to deepen trust:
- Spend time getting to know your clients beyond their business needs. Truly understand their goals, challenges, business roadblocks and motivations.
- Be transparent about what you can and cannot deliver. Overpromising combined with inconsistency erodes trust.
- Follow through on commitments. Small actions, such as a timely follow-up, demonstrate reliability.
Authenticity isn’t a tactic; it’s a lifestyle.
How this translates to sales growth:
- Long-term clients drive higher lifetime value.
- Repeat business reduces the cost of acquiring new clients.
- Strong relationships lead to referrals and word-of-mouth growth.
Your action step:
Create regularly set check ins with your clients without a sales or hidden agenda. Provide value-driven content, bring business insights, or simply ask how you can support or be a resource to them.
Your clients want something more, something authentic… No more empty suits.
2. Creating Meaningful Value that Solves Real Problems
Harmony with clients isn’t just about relationships, it’s also about meaningful value.
Your clients want to feel that they're getting more than just a product or service; they want meaningful and substantive business value.
Meaningful value is the impact you have on your client’s life or business. When you shift from selling to serving, your clients perceive you as a trusted advisor rather than just a vendor.
Meaningful value is created by:
- Understanding the specific challenges of each client.
- Offering tailored solutions rather than generic product pitches.
- Providing insights, education, and strategic advice that go beyond the obvious.
You might be asking... How does this contribute to sales growth?
When clients see you as a value creator, they're more likely to invest in your solutions. This leads to upsell and cross-sell opportunities.
A few ways to implement this in your sales process:
- Ask deeper, more meaningful questions to uncover what truly matters to your clients.
- Develop customized presentations and solutions that reflect their unique challenges.
- Regularly provide valuable insights through industry reports, white papers, or strategic recommendations.
How this translates to sales growth:
- Clients see you as a trusted advisor, not just another salesperson.
- Providing ongoing value leads to upsell and expansion opportunities.
- Meaningful engagement reduces client churn and increases contract renewals.
Your action step:
With discipline, develop a habit of delivering value before, during, and after the sale. This could be through educational content, strategic insights, or proactive problem-solving.
The greatest way you can add value to your clients is to provide them with strategic, actionable advice going beyond the most obvious solutions.
3. Delivering an Inspirational Experience that Encourages Loyalty
"The foundation stones for a balanced success are honesty, character, integrity, faith, love and loyalty."
Zig Ziglar
An inspirational experience builds emotional connections, which are far stronger than transactional relationships. When a client feels valued and cared for, they're not only more likely to buy more, they will also become brand advocates who refer others.
Even if they won't tell you, they crave memorable experiences. Every touchpoint in your relationship should create a sense of ease, confidence, and inspiration.
This means crafting a client journey that is seamless, engaging, and value-driven.
An inspirational experience includes:
- Ensuring every interaction is meaningful and adds value.
- Being proactive in addressing client needs before they arise.
- Personalizing the experience to make clients feel special, appreciated and valued.
You might be asking... How does inspirational experiences contribute to sales growth?
Clients who have a positive experience are more likely to remain loyal and refer others to you. They're also more open to exploring additional solutions, increasing their overall lifetime value to your business. This is your commissionable dollars.
A great experience sets you apart in a competitive marketplace, making price a secondary concern.
How to create an inspirational client experience:
- Personalize your communication. Send handwritten notes, celebrate milestones, and recognize their achievements.
- Make working with you effortless and seamless. Simplify the buying process and be highly responsive.
- Continuously look for ways to exceed expectations by surprising and delighting your clients.
Your action step:
Create inspirational experiences that your clients will become emotionally invested in. Focus in on small, intentional actions that build loyalty, trust, and long-term sales growth.
Final Thoughts, Harmony Equates to Sales Growth
Unfortunately, we live in a business society where trust is rare, be the sales professional who stands out, not by pushing harder, but by connecting deeper. The more harmony you create with your clients, the more your sales will grow.
Creating harmony with your clients isn’t just about making sales easier, it’s about building a business that thrives on trust, value, and experience. When you align your sales strategy with authenticity and a serving mentality, you set the foundation for sustainable revenue growth.
Your next step... Take a moment to evaluate your client relationships. Are you building harmony through authenticity, trust, and value? If not, now is the time to shift from being transactional to transformational. Your sales success depends on it.
To truly thrive in this landscape, you must shift from operating as transactional sales reps to transformational sales professionals.
Will you take the next steps?
Stephen M. R. Covey is a globally recognized speaker and author specializing in trust and leadership. He is the bestselling author of The SPEED of Trust and Trust & Inspire: How Truly Great Leaders Unleash the Greatness in Others. As the former President and CEO of Covey Leadership Center, he helped transform the organization into a global leadership development firm. Covey holds an MBA from Harvard Business School and is the son of the late Stephen R. Covey, author of The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People. His expertise on trust and leadership has influenced organizations worldwide.
SHOW SUMMARY
In this episode of the Selling From the Heart Podcast, Darrell Amy, CEPA, VCG and I welcome Stephen M. R. Covey to explore the critical role of trust in sales and leadership. Covey, a trust expert and bestselling author, shares key insights from The Speed of Trust and Trust & Inspire, emphasizing how sales professionals can intentionally build trust with their clients and teams. The discussion highlights the four key elements of trust—integrity, intent, capabilities, and results—and how these factors shape long-term relationships in sales. Covey also breaks down the difference between motivation and inspiration, urging sales leaders to inspire rather than just motivate. This episode is a masterclass in authenticity, leadership, and relationship-building for sales professionals.
KEY TAKEAWAYS
Trust is the foundation of sales success – Authenticity, integrity, and alignment between words and actions build strong professional relationships.
Self-trust is the first step – Sales professionals must trust themselves before they can earn trust from others.
Trust should be intentional – It’s not just a byproduct of good relationships; it should be a deliberate and strategic focus.
Inspiration vs. Motivation – Leaders should inspire their teams by connecting to purpose and meaning, rather than relying solely on external motivation.
Reputation matters – Having a reputation for trust and authenticity creates a lasting competitive advantage in sales.
The Mirror Question – Ask yourself, "Do I trust myself? Do I give others a person they can trust?"
HIGHLIGHT QUOTES
"Trust is the currency of sales." – Stephen M. R. Covey
"Make, keep, and repeat commitments to build trust." – Stephen M. R. Covey
"Inspiration is the new competitive advantage." – Stephen M. R. Covey
"Trust is built intentionally, not accidentally." – Stephen M. R. Covey
"Self-trust is the foundation for all trust." – Stephen M. R. Covey
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